indelicacy asked: eeee! I accidentally hit submit! I'm sorry! I was going to ask if you would be able to tell me something about your experience in different types of D/s relationships. How did you decide that Daddy/little girl worked for you? How did you feel about age play, initially? What is it about the D/s lifestyle that just 'clicks' for you? ...I know I am horribly curious, but any information you can give me or feel comfortable with passing on would be greatly appreciated! Thank you so much. :)

Hi! Ok, I’ll try to be brief:

My D/s experience:

I’ve been in all sorts of relationships. Master/slave TPE (really intense. Admittedly, I miss it a lot), Daddy/little (exclusive), Daddy/little (non-exclusive or “poly”)

How did you decide that Daddy/little girl worked for you?

That’s a great question. It wasn’t really a decision. It just felt exactly right, you know? Sorta like finding home after being lost for a long time. It was a relief to find this community and my “place”… to realize what I wanted/craved was normal and “ok”.

How did you feel about age play, initially?

I was very against age and incest play (Note: I do not judge anyone for their preferences). To a degree, I still am. It’s hard to explain and maybe I don’t fully understand this side/part of me yet. But I guess, if I try, I’d have to say I don’t ever feel like I’m “playing” an age or pretending to be young. In the heat of a scene, and in the moment, I get to a place where I feel younger/more innocent.. or am more aware of it? I don’t know, I’m sorry, that’s not really an answer…. Maybe it’s the label I don’t like?

What is it about the D/s lifestyle that just ‘clicks’ for you?

I like having a role and a “place”. I love the level of intimacy and trust that is built up between D/s partners. I honestly feel vanilla couples could learn a lot through exploring D/s. I love that communication is absolutely critical to happiness and safety in D/s relationship. I am a very direct (and sometimes naive) person. I believe if I need something I should say it and that others should be just as forthcoming. I know this doesn’t really occur in the “real world” which is why D/s is such a relief for me.

Plus, It’s sexy as fuck ;)

These were fun to answer!

xoxoxo