"We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly. We grow partially. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present, and future mingle and pull us backward, forward, or fix us in the present. We are made up of layers, cells, constellations." — Anaïs Nin
To clear up any confusion, I’d like to state that I am an adult woman, not an ACTUAL little girl. I am heavily interested in learning about BDSM and exploring my kinky side. My favorite “kink” or fetish is being involved in a Daddy/little relationship.
My blog was never intended to be viewed as gospel and/or a good exemplar of DD/lg. This blog is all about fantasy. If you’d like to read my raw and honest rants about what I’m thinking/experiencing/being challenged with. Follow my “secret” blog (ASK me for the URL). If you’re happy with porn. Stay right here!
I have YET to write my own definition, but below is one I like (and agree with). For me, Daddy/little does not involve age play or incest. I have no desire to be a little girl or to have sex with children OR be involved with someone who does.
Written by Master Steve (Daddy to You)
I can spoil my lil girl a bit and she doesn’t have to be a complete 7/24 submissive. But I can be a Daddy to my lil girl, easily. I love to have My baby girl be my prized possession, My lil dirty whore. The thrill for me is owning her completely and having her do all the things I teach and train her to do.
To me a Daddy/lil girl relationship has nothing to do with age and more to do with the type of relationship the two have together. The Daddy is the nurturer, the safe one and the object of sexual obsession for this lil girl.
Lil girls tend to be very obsessive about their Daddies. One might even say needy for Daddy’s attention and his body. Daddies will probably understand what I mean. She may have a successful career, be top in her field but she knows Daddy is always there for her in their private world together. She looks to Daddy for love, comfort and He is her sexual desire. She looks up to Daddy, admires him, and trusts him.
Daddy feels needed, adored and worshiped by His lil girl. He is almost everything to her. His lil girl will do almost anything to please Daddy, to make him happy. She believes that her Daddy knows best and He knows that His lil girl loves her Daddy more then anything. Daddy likes to use and experiment with His lil girl, to teach her how to fulfill their relationship. He will always listen to her opinions, thoughts and feeling, because He is interested in her mind as much as His is her body. However, when there is an important decision to be made, His will be the final word.
The lil girl I seek is, honest and trustworthy to her Daddy and his private thoughts, desires and actions. It will be her place to relax, be naked and be free. She is mine to lie with, play with, share with others and teach. She will make me happy; to be a good girl for Daddy gives her the most pleasure.
Someone recently asked me what the difference between a ‘Daddy’ and ‘Master’ is. I attempt to answer it HERE.
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